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« on: October 31, 2010, 05:23:15 AM »

After many years of searching for the right one I got married at a relatively late age in my circles. I had battled various health problems as a child and it took a long time to find the right one who would look past everything.  I was thrilled when I got pregnant right away that b"h something had finally went easy for me. I  just had a miscarriage in the 3rd month.
how can I understand why this happend to me? i feel like i am just angry and dont even want to daven right now. i went through 2.5 months of beng so sick to be stuck in bed , throwing up, etc.. more than once i ended up in the hospital from getting dehydrated. but i was ok with all of this , even though it was keeping us from enjoying shana rishona, because i anticipated the end- a healthy baby. because i was so sick, everyone who knows me knows that i was expecting and now after a week in the hospital, i have to go back and face the world. how do i keep myself from getting depressed or despairing?
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« Reply #1 on: November 01, 2010, 05:29:35 PM »

Dear Shira,
I am very sorry that you lost your baby. I hope that you will soon become pregnant with a healthy child that will bring you comfort and joy. You are not alone. Miscarriage is sad to tell a very common happening. It would probably do you good to find a pregnancy loss support group so you can get moral support from ladies who know just how you are feeling. Get busy doing chessed. This will distract you form a great deal of pain. And you will be making the world a better place for the children that you will be bringing into the it. Get a bracha from a Gaddole. Find out who is the best doctor in your area that deals with your need. Make an appointment as soon as passable. Daven, pore your heart out to HaShem. It is O.K. to cry. No tear ever cried was ever lost. Focus on your Shalom Bias. That is the most important thing. It is the foundation for raising a happy family.
Never give up hope. HaShem loves you. May he bless you with healthy happy children who will be bnai Torah.
Be well.
Gittel
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« Reply #2 on: November 01, 2010, 05:56:45 PM »

p.s. Make sure you are eating properly and getting enough sleap.
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« Reply #3 on: November 03, 2010, 12:49:57 AM »

thanks.
the hard part is now b/c i am not up to getting back to work or anything yet because still feeling lousy physically besides emotionally.
hopefully next week once i go back and distract myself it will make it easier to be happy. working with small children- i try but i cant help feel jeaoulos when i seethese parents 5-10 years youer wiht several children. i think i do better working with elderly people which hopefully  i will try to getback into soon.
dr.'s have already told me medically that i am at high risk and it will be a miracle if i can have a healthy child. ay drs and i have went to many specialist and not gotten any hope from that end.
going to get a bracha is a good idea and hopefully i will try to do that.
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« Reply #4 on: November 07, 2010, 04:14:33 PM »

Dear Shira,
Refua Shelama, It is not easy what you are going through. I visit an older lady in a retirement home twice a week. We go for a short walk that takes a long time because she had a fall that she has not recovered from.  We sit on a bench and read Tehillim. She is a very nice lady and it means a lot to her that I go with her on her walk. If you think you can work with the elderly, go for it. It is a good thing.
Hashem gave you a husband. Focus on your Shalom bias. King Solomon Said "A happy wife is a happy life." It is a mitzva to be happy. Mitzvos are not always easy. But they are worth the effort. you and your husband deserve to be happy together.  May HaShem answer your tfelos with a miracle child.
Be Well.
Gittel

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